Why do tourists fall in love with thai bar girls?Thai bar girls are lazy, they are not typical for thai women.

Just read the other post about tourists falling in love with bar girls in thailand. Why can't these tourists see that these bar girls are just lazy no matter what reasons they told you about how they became a prostitute. Many decent thai women would do manual work or work in factory rather than selling their body to sweaty fat old farangs. These bargirls just enjoy the easy money that you offer so she could go sit in a salon gettting her hair and nails done everyday looking as if she has got it all. Don't you men feel cheated when you pay dowry to a family of a prostitute? dowry is supposed to be given for the virginity of the girl and for her public standing. By the way even when you hand over the money to the family you're supposed to get it back as what a normal thai family would do so the couple could start their new life with the money. I m only talking about the tourists who never get such attention in their own countries especially from girls so much younger.