When my boyfriends in a bad mood:?

First off do you know why he is upset or depressed? and second everything you said was good, it was okay to say those things cause you are being honest. Granted sometimes you do have to give people you love their space, but in this case you guys don't really see each other so i understand your frustration The thing is just being there for him should be good and saying positive things to him, those are important things to making him feel better but also you have to realize he isn't going to use your help if he doesnt want to....like he isnt going to feel better until he wants to. Thats the hardest part. but you also need to figure out if this anger or depression or "bad moods" are something more serious, he might need other types of help.